"In his first book, Troy Rawlings reveals himself as a true expert on the ups and downs of dating. A connoisseur of fabulous sex and equally great relationships, this guy got around! 
Troy is about keeping life real and fun at the same time. He explains why knowing who you are is vital to creating happy and healthy relationships… and why sending a fictionalized persona on what should have been your date… is a disastrous way to start a relationship.
Troy’s days as a stand-up comedian taught him the value of authenticity. The more honest he was with his audience, the more successful he became. When he finally decided to apply that honesty to dating… it transformed his entire life into what he always wanted it to be.
Troy provides the kind of true advice that instantly changes perception and sets you on a different and more confident course. I wish I had this book when I was dating… it would have saved me years of rather questionable relationships and a flat-liner first marriage!
Read this short witty book, laugh your way through it from the first page to the last, and put Troy’s sophisticated insights and practical recommendations to work immediately. 
Life is just too short to waste any precious time and miss out on having the life partner and sexual relationship(s) you’ve always wanted!"

Ande Lyons,

Chief Passion Curator, Bring Back Desire